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Pain, its Relief and Pleasure
Just working stuff out... Well, January whizzed by in the blink of an eye... could be something to do with living in the Southern...
Pat Fletcher
Feb 5, 20243 min read
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Pain, its Relief and Pleasure
Just working stuff out... Well, January whizzed by in the blink of an eye... could be something to do with living in the Southern...
Pat Fletcher
Feb 5, 20243 min read
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Make a Wish
Glad tidings to one and all ! 'tis true, our intelligences ensure we are complex creatures. That said, at our core, our essences remain...
Pat Fletcher
Dec 24, 20231 min read
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On Becoming a Counsellor 2
Is it one ‘l’ or two? So, I have been enjoying Lori Gottlieb’s ‘Maybe you Should Talk to Someone’ – a lot! So not a textbook, and I’m...
Pat Fletcher
Sep 13, 20233 min read
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On Becoming a Counsellor...
Wow! Long time no blog! So, I have been up to a lot, and yes living a life I like, which is 2023's New Year's resolution ;-) has untold...
Pat Fletcher
Sep 5, 20233 min read
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I'm Liking What I Like...
Long time, no blog update! Instead I have been writing about anxiety and ways of transforming out of being anxious. So here I am writing...
Pat Fletcher
Jun 2, 20233 min read
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A New Year, a new number, a new life...
One thing I have learnt is that the only constant in life is change. This time last year I was still grieving my mum's passing. Little...
Pat Fletcher
Dec 29, 20222 min read
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Being True to Ma Roots
Life's a funny old thing when you're a bit of an explorer. In fact you can find yourself in the most weird and wonderful of places....
Pat Fletcher
Nov 18, 20221 min read
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Freedom !
All change... Yes, Living First has broken free it reins. As from tomorrow I'll be setting up a platform on Facebook through which people...
Pat Fletcher
Nov 2, 20222 min read
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Indecision is Normal
To my mind development, growth, fulfilment and progress is a given ... it's how we're travelling that's important. The problem is that we...
Pat Fletcher
Oct 19, 20223 min read
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Psyche
Yes, my journeying into psychology continues and where better to begin than the word itself: psyche ology Ology means the study of and to...
Pat Fletcher
Oct 7, 20222 min read
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Step 1 : Get a reeeeally big book...
... that you can't wait to dive into
Pat Fletcher
Sep 26, 20221 min read
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... on becoming a Counselling Psychotherapist
Day one of the journey - really! Only day one...?
Pat Fletcher
Sep 8, 20220 min read
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Soooo many farewells...
Farewells are never forever, but tricky all the same.
As to stuff, well there's a whole other world beyond dry old economics...
Pat Fletcher
Jul 21, 20222 min read
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A Fitting End...
Letting go can be tough, and yet...
Pat Fletcher
Jul 9, 20222 min read
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It's Official - we're going Down Under
Yes, Australia beckons once more - for me and Living First therapies! Ever since we realised this shift in our lives, life has been a...
Pat Fletcher
Jun 25, 20223 min read
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I Love my Life
I've just been looking through the last few photos on my phone and realised, yes it is official: I love my life Give it a go... flicking...
Pat Fletcher
Jun 19, 20221 min read
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Do you want to be happy?
I know, to me this would be a strange question to ask anyone. It's obvious, right! Everyone wants to be happy... or do they? It is a...
Pat Fletcher
Jun 14, 20222 min read
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Being & Doing What You Like
Gosh, that's a loaded title - now I'll have to unpick it! Being and doing what you like sounds dreadfully selfish, irresponsible even,...
Pat Fletcher
Apr 25, 20221 min read
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Becoming Your Different
Becoming your different really isn't as easy as you might think. The key to unlocking your unique qualities in life is personal freedom -...
Pat Fletcher
Apr 5, 20224 min read
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Our Future Depends on us Being Different...
I picked up a quote by John Maynard Keynes, ... the idea of the future being different from the present is so repugnant to our...
Pat Fletcher
Mar 7, 20224 min read
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